You had ample time to know that it would be coming on Xbox One from the announcement way back, though. I would say you were too impulsive with that, but it's understandable that you feel that way. Luckily for you (and myself, as I also will be preferring PC), PC should be in the mix sometime in Spring. We just don't know exactly when.
I actually never got a notification, I only found out about it through crunchyroll. I've had that xbox one for less than 2 months and didn't have xbox live gold. I didn't find out about pso2 finally coming to na until like 2 weeks after I traded away the xbox one x. and honestly I don't regret it. I was just lightly irritated that it didn't come to pc first.