"I do ok, but its not like I can produce S ranks in stuff like divides or do the high level alone." "I'm looking for people that love this game and are as hard core as me." Considering that getting S-ranks in divide quest is very easy, this wouldn't even make you close to hardcore. Gear doesn't really matter that much from PSO2 to NGS since it'll be at most, 4 star, which will get outclassed pretty quickly unless it brings some really good utility (depending on how strong the utility actually is, the longer the weapon may be useful). Players will pretty much run cradle to farm meseta and buy cosmetics/lobby actions that they want to carry over into NGS. Good luck on getting people to do those other modes/triggers with you though.
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