@Milk said in Br/Ph might not be for you if you don't learn to play Br properly:
You’re probably right that people just don’t want to be reminded of mistakes, even though everyone makes them and there’s nothing to be ashamed of. Denial is the worst thing a player can react with, how can you improve if you never admit you need improving? People have a right to play how they wish to a certain extent but if it’s hindering the enjoyment of others then something needs to change. In my ffxiv example, I talked to them because I feared they would keep angering players and they seemed genuinely upset this happened. Maybe not every player will care about that but I hope many do.
Like you said, we all play this game together and teamwork is key. What people do solo is their own business but nobody likes pulling deadweight, nobody likes feeling taken advantage of.
In every game there are players that do not read guides and play their class randomly, the key is their will to learn and correct their mistakes or just throw tantrums.
When I was playing Tera, my guild used to organize (free) carry runs to help randoms understand mechanics of instances like WHHM/MCHM and such.
Among many players we helped, I recall a priest using aggro crystals, that I helped understand what crystal she had to use (I gave her 2 sets for free because she was willing to learn), and a guy who literally went afk to eat an ice cream without telling anyone, made us wipe because he was supposed to destroy a totem and did not care at all to learn or focus (he only wanted loot).
People like the latter ended up being kicked from every party they joined, here I feel that people are reliant on the fact that, trolls aside, kicking players is not common and at the moment, without expert matching, there are many of the so hated "elitists" carrying them.
Probably, if expert matching ever comes here, there will be an hard "wake up" and complaints will follow.