People in FFXIV wont vote kick you. Instead they will refuse to finish the run and make you leave the instance on your own. If they vote kick, you suffer no penalty, if you desert the run however you will take a 30 min penalty where you will be unable to que for any other content. I've been on the giving and receiving end of this both ways on that game, and the GM's do not care that it happens.
As for the GM's banning people for harassment of players not following the "meta", that's laughable at best. I went into a run(Shiva Ex) to farm it in duty finder. I had already downed it 100+ times while it was relevant and had the weapons/accessories for most of the classes I played, was simply doing it to pick up a weapon for an alt class. I que'd into a group(a 7 man pre-made that were all from the same guild, lucky me). As soon as I joined before they even pulled the boss, 3 of them started harassing me(I hadn't said anything in the chat), telling me my gear was too low, I didn't know how to do the fight, etc.
I linked all the drops for my other classes that came from that fight to show them I knew the fight, probably better than they did and asked them to just pull so we could get it done and move on. They refused, I then politely asked to be vote kicked, to which they also refused and said I should take the deserter penalty. I refused to do this and sat in the quest figuring if they were gonna waste my time turn-a-bouts fair play.
Of course they reported me for griefing for this and I got a nice trip to GM island. The Gm asked me what happened, I explained it to him. He went back looked at the chat log, confirmed what I had said and that they were the ones who instigated everything. He sided with me and let me go, he asked me if I wanted to submit a ticket for what they did. I asked if it would result in anything be done(they spent an hour cussing me out and telling me how I should go kill myself, etc), the GM said most likely nothing at all would happen, or at best they'd be issued a warning. Square isn't in the habit of throwing out bans to players paying a sub unless it's absolutely necessary to do so as they lose money/customers when they do that.