I never set my 2nd password an now it is asking me for it an locking me out! Can this be reset somehow or am i sol?

You can get it reset by submitting a support request: https://support.pso2.com/hc/en-us

About 20 minutes ago I submitted a request to reset mine, ETA Unknown still wasn't reset yet.

I sent a request two days ago. Not reset yet...

i sent request forever ago, not reset yet

I sent mine 3 days ago and no reset