personally i felt the same about affixing when I first started trying even I said I would give up the whole process and just buy affixed units off market but after like 1-2 hours of watching some vids, using affix simulator too see the max percentage of certain augments and learning what increased certain augments affix rate it became alot easier. Its hard at first but once you get it it becomes alot easier to do affixing and plan everything, personally suggest using affix simulator to plan your affixs out. the only problem I would say there is with affixing is the amount of mesta needed ie for upslotting and getting certain affixs on your fodder. Other than that its pretty easy.(btw learn what augment factors are they will make affixing alot easier too)
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